The current conversation surrounding women’s bodies and how
women are to be regarded is becoming more and more disturbing. It’s a topic that comes very close to home
for me, and I want to connect my experience with the emerging theology of unity
that I’ve been developing in this blog.
First, I need to share a bit of my past – not only do I have
the usual body image and weight concerns, but I am a survivor of marital
rape. My first husband (now deceased)
was an alcoholic who needed to exploit my body sexually just to reassure
himself that he was alive. At least,
that’s what my therapist said. For
myself, I can say that I got told what I wanted, and in an effort to be a good
and loving wife I went along with things I should never have allowed. But all of that is in retrospect.




